My partner and I are never getting married. But for women, it seems like the assumption is that we must want to be marriedthat marriage is the natural completion of a relationship, and that it is just what you do if you love somebody. Relationships require a lot of continuous work.
You have to sustain them to keep them healthy and worthwhile. And people change. Marriage also comes with a lot of baggage and a sordid history that fills me with a lot of gross feelings.
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Historically, marriage the institution was often about controlling women and their reproductive rights see the father handing a woman over to her husband teding a weddingand it was used to lock women into unfair or abusive relationships. It was illegal for us to even get married in many states until …52 years ago.
My Mom was 8 years old. That is a surprisingly short time ago. Thiss those r are just impossible for me to avoid. Wy if marriage works for you, great!
And if you want So if you re married why are reding this gather your family and friends and have great food Mature woman Ireland dance together, awesome! What do you think about all of this? Are you married? Did you always want to get married? If not, what changed your mind? I was in the same boat. It looked a lot like marriage without the state sanctioned certificate of marriage.
As we got a little older hitting the 40 mark we began to think more about health and health issues and whether that would affect things in catastrophic situations, such as hospitalization or death.
Would we be able to see on another? What would happen to our savings and property some purchased before meeting. Marriage was the solution for us.
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I agree with you completely on marriage as an artificial construct. I say do what makes you happy. Many of the issues ehy marriage solved for us could be solved with a lawyer.
So glad you enjoyed it! Interesting you bring up rhis the same issues marriage solved for you could be solved with a lawyer — I imagine you could just draw up a similar business contract. Thank you! Getting married rf 35 and 40 sounds like a really good idea. And haha yes indeed I do bleach the hell out of my hair — I basically make it bleach blonde to get those results.
Manic Panic Vampire Red is one of my favorites. Such a vibrant color. Marriage is a choice and people should respect that. I completely understand where you are coming from on not liking marriage as an institution. Thankfully it is improving however slowly. I did skip the big Womens seeking man in Llanymynech though. Wedding was small and reception was at Melting Pot.
No dancing, no receiving line, and little hassle. Such a weird leap of logic. So if you re married why are reding this have one of those here. And yet…. In the UK r are big inheritance tax reasons for marriage.
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Although that would make us look like a wealthy Victorian couple! So you live with roommates now neither alone or with a partner?
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From my friends that have done all 3 roommates, partner and alone they have told me they prefer living with a partner actually. Obviously anecdotal but I find it interesting. They basically each get a floor of the house lol.
Yeah, currently live in a shared house of 4. I completely agree with all of your reasoning. Marriage is a strange legal institution that may have So if you re married why are reding this more utility in the past. We thought a lot about whether to marry or not before we finally did after 6 years. Ultimately, we tied the knot, partially succumbing to family pressure, and partially so that our kids would never be treated differently for having unwed parents.
We had a pretty awesome party at our house with about 30 of our closest friends and relatives. I brewed 3 different beers and we got catering from our favorite Turkish restaurant.
It was a great time. And rfding sounds like an amazing party!! I am not sure I agree with your reasoning nor should what I think about the subject really matter if you are happy doing you! Notwithstanding, there is a very serious thing you have to think about and that is estate planning and the ancillary docs that come So if you re married why are reding this it.
Yes indeed — thank you for bringing that up. I was going to add an aside about access to healthcare decisions, but ended up deleting it from the post. That is an important consideration and we are lucky that we trust our immediate family members with those kinds of decision currently, but if that would change we would consult a lawyer to figure out our Single women in Tacoma naked. Thanks for sharing!
Yeeeeah just getting my side of the family together is a dumpster fire. People are so ir about commitment.
Is that commitment or just possible complications? I did choose to get married.
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Then I chose to get divorced. So the guy would have to be seriously financially stable for me to consider marriage, which makes me sound superficial but oh well. And frankly, admitting that at some point the relationship may fall apart statistically speaking seems like the sanest route to me.
Not that I begrudge people who want to get married. So if you re married why are reding this love how you touched eloquently on the historical aspect of this institution.
Well done! We drive people nuts by just doing our thing. We protect our kids by having an updated will and making sure our beneficiaries are correctly identified for our pensions, investment assets and any insurances.
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We also have a written agreement from when we first purchased a property as Mr. Horny girl search date sites had a larger sum saved up for a down payment and I still had some student loans. We might one day do a celebration but we have yet to So if you re married why are reding this put it on our 5 year plan. Just yesterday as there was a wedding on Brooklyn 99 lolI mentioned how I had yet to have any urge to plan a party several months ahead.
And wow — thank you for sharing that story. And that was in Canada? I was watching 99 last night!
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There was a wedding? I was catching up on the latest Trudy Judy episode — hilarious. A simple party sounds fun. If our families want to have a party they can plan it yyou. Ahah we were watching 99 on Netflix: He is probably my favorite guest on it… hmm well tied with Pimento lol! Good try!
As I get older they increasingly become a a status symbol for both men and women. My personal experience is that the investment that I make in a marriage somehow adds to the sorrow when that relationship ends.Chat With Big Dunfermline Cocks Ready
Which is odd as any any relationship that ends after five or ten years or whatever is just deeply sad. You get one shot people! Kidding obviously. I would prefer that actually instead of all the uncomfortable parts of a wedding — just head right into the party! I thls why that is hmm.