Sure, they teach us the biology of sex, the legality of marriage, and maybe we read a few obscure love stories from the 19th century on how not to be. But part of the problem is that many unhealthy relationship habits are baked into our culture.
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When one person has a simple criticism or undrr and blackmails the other person by threatening the commitment of the relationship as a whole. Som minor hiccup in the flow of the relationship results in a perceived commitment crisis.
Otherwise, people will suppress their true thoughts and feelings which leads to an environment of distrust and manipulation. But understand that committing to a person and always liking a person are not the same thing. One can be committed to someone and not like everything about them. One can be eternally devoted to someone yet actually be annoyed or angered by their partner at times.
On the contrary, two partners who are capable of communicating feedback and criticism towards one another, only without judgment or blackmail, will strengthen their commitment to one another in the long-run. They got distracted when you hugged them.
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You want to lay around at home together and just watch a movie tonight, but they have plans to go out and see their cobers. So you lash out at them for being so insensitive and callous toward you.
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Sure, you never asked, but they should just know to make you feel better. They should have gotten off the phone and ditched their plans based on your lousy emotional state.
Blaming our partners for our emotions is a subtle form of selfishness and a classic example of the poor maintenance of personal boundaries.
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All activities at home — even the mundane ones like reading books or watching TV — must be negotiated and compromised. When someone begins to get upset, all personal anc go out the window because it is now your responsibility to make one another feel better.
The biggest problem of developing these codependent tendencies is that they ou resentment. Take responsibility for your own emotions and expect your partner to be responsible for theirs.
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It creates unnecessary drama and fighting. It transmits a message of a lack of trust in the other person. Trust your partner.
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Because otherwise, you are only going to eventually push that person away. Any time a major conflict or issue comes up in the relationship, instead of solving it, one covers it up with the excitement and good feelings that come with buying something nice or going on a trip somewhere. Or worse—like getting married. My parents were experts at this one. And it got them real far: They have both since independently told me that this was the primary problem Single women cam chat their marriage: Not only does it brush the real problem under the rug where it will always re-emerge and even worse the next timebut it sets an unhealthy precedent within the relationship.
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Not only does this give the woman unconscious incentive to find more reasons to be upset with the man, but it also gives the man absolutely no incentive to actually be accountable for the problems in the relationship. So what do you end up with?
A checked-out husband who feels like an ATM, and an incessantly bitter woman who feels unheard. Actually, you know, deal with the problem. Trust was broken? Talk about what it will take to rebuild it. Someone feels ignored or unappreciated?
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